Fixated, I have noticed when you posted on the couch and thought, "oh good! Fixated posted also." In terms of responding to threads you have started, I often feel I don't have anything to add or any good input.

I most often feel a connection with people who have similar issues or ideas, or people who are funny. If there is no common ground that I can find with the other person, then mostly likely I am not going to feel connected or a sense of camaraderie with that person.