hurt, from what your T said, I don't get the impression that he set out to hurt you or that he doesn't like you.

It seems that instead he was trying to be helpful. And actually, what he said seemed more like an objective appraisal, or trying to understand a situation.

You are hurt and clearly this is not what you wanted to hear, but this needs to be discussed with him. Sometimes in therapy we hear things we just don't want to hear, but this is to - ultimately - help us.