Fix, you are assuming that everyone else here feels like they "fit in". I agree with Anne that I think everyone has these feelings at one time or another. For me the boards parallel IRL and the struggles I face IRL relationships are the same I face here. Only here I have a chance to work on these with people who understand what I am feeling. After all there is an underlying common ground we all share and that is therapy and all the emotions under the sun that come with it. We are all learning to deal with these things and help each other do the same. We are all in the same boat.