Funny you should mention the Couch because just before I read this thread I was looking at posting there because I really wanted to just give a couple of updates on how I was feeling and what I'd been doing without starting a whole new thread, and the Couch really is so fast moving and covers every topic under the sun that it felt wrong to try and muscle in with serious stuff when I'd not posted there before, and end up feeling resentful because no-one would have noticed my posts. I know you didn't want to pick on that thread specifically, but the very nature of that thread may have contributed to how you ended up feeling.