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Old Feb 01, 2013, 01:53 PM
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A relationship that has no trust has NOTHING. There is nothing to build on, and there is nothing to stand on, so the relationship falls apart. Trust HAS to be #1 in a relationship. If you know your partner is lying and you do nothing, then you're almost as guilty. You're enabling him. By letting him continue to get away with this, it solidifies the FAILURE of the relationship.

There's no future with someone who lies. And with no future, you must leave, or make HIM leave. Without intensive therapy, he's not going to get better. And anyone who would stay with someone who continually lies needs help too.

Life is too wonderful to be spent with someone like that. Perhaps you've spent so much time with him you've forgotten how great life can be. I hope you'll get rid of this one, and find someone who will RESPECT and love you the way you deserve it. Right now, he's not respecting you and insults your dignity. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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