It went well and I invited him over on Sunday to eat. Later on Sunday he will go home to watch the Superbowl, which is the only professionals sports event he watches. And I do not have a TV for that. He told me he does not care about the shape of my apartment and that his apartment is very cluttered and he cannot even blame an ex for that. So I just need to cook and I have not done it in a couple of months.

Since we have already discussed his work and my work, his childhood and my childhood, his mental health and my mental health, his relatives and mine, and in particular when his grandmother died and when my grandmother died (both at 90+), his former and current partners and mine, his cat and my cats, and everything else that can possibly be discussed, and he is nice and sweet and appreciative and all the rest of that, I plan to try and have sex with him on Sunday and see how it goes, because otherwise I am completely out of ideas of what else to do with him. Someone on the Relationships and Communications forum suggested bowling, and I thought about it, but decided against it because I just do not see myself being keenly interested in how well he does bowling. I deeply do not care and feel that we can safely skip that stage.