I was not suggesting that you get another man while in the marriage. I was suggesting switching men. Selling your stock, cutting the losses, and buying a new one. You are saying that your stock used to be very high and you want to hold it hoping that it would go back to its former heights, which is perfectly reasonable if you have some sort of deadline in your mind.

I have had Androids since the first release in 2008. I do not use them in the way that many people do - I do not have a suite of apps. I just do not care. A couple of my acquaintances are Android developers so I know that some people care very much, but I do not. And I disregard emails from Google Play that invite me to try millions of apps. What I need is: the phone should ring, it should keep contacts and sync them with the cloud, it should display GMAIL and Calendar and sync them as well, and occasionally I use maps. That's all - very minimalistic. Oh, and, infrequently, taking pictures. But the first thing that the phone should do is ring - make calls. That is why I have the phone in the first place. It is my basic requirement. That the phone is a camera is nice-to-have and optional - if it stops taking pictures but continues to ring and sync gmail, I would be too lazy to go to a repair shop or get a new phone. But if it stops making calls, I would go the repair shop route and if that fails, switch to a new phone. This is, again, because making calls is my basic requirement.

You explained and articulated your sexual needs very well, so it is clear that for you, unlike for some other people, intense sexual life is not a nice-to-have optional feature but a basic requirement. Currently you have a phone that does not ring and does not want to be taken to a repair shop.