Depending on where you live and how slow you implement it fire red or purple highlights can be acceptable "accidents" if your hair is short or generally up, earnings (small plain plugs our generally allowed), changing your necklaces chain thickness (by a little) and your make-up a little.

I wear a corset under my normal cloths at times. I have tons of long almost prom type dresses but plainer I get after prom for $12. So often I'm accused of being to dressed up but no one complains when someones to dressed up. My "eye liner" (just above the eyelashes) for my upper eyelids is sparkle and I put it on before my normal eye shadow. Most people just think they are drawn to your eyes so they don't realize it's sparkley. Sparkley perfume and heavy small bracelets (melted copper-wire bracelets are awesome for this) trend to go unnoticed. I completely understand I live in the bible belt and move in conservative cycles where I'm young enough to be their kid.