i am so unbelievably confused with what is going on with me. my life ,my T. i am terrified of confrontation so will never ever tell my T if something is making me feel bad.

i just want to know how some of you went about finding a new T or to even find out if another T might be better. have you told your T that you are looking at other T. if so what was T reaction especially if you didn't change.

did you not say anything to eather T? or maybe did you say something to the T you are consitering and if so what was that T reaction to you not telling the other T??

did you just go see another T not say anything to either and just not go see old T again

i told my T once i quit because i felt so much like she hated me. i went so far as to make an appointment with another T but never told either i was doing so. all my T had to do was to call me tel me that she would like to keep seeing me if i wanted and i cancled the apt with the other T and went running back with tale between my legs. i don't know what to think.

mt insurance tells me i should find a new T before quitting the old one because sometimes there can be a long gap from one to the other