That helps a lot Open Eyes, thank you. I need to read your response a few more times. I think you are saying I need to value me and what I do and not focus on them? Yes? You are right in saying that they have no real empathy. I care and I hurt with caring, they don't have that... I guess that is the clash. Clashing personalities, I'll try not to let them make me feel like an idiot. Thank you again.