Yes, seeing what your "real value" is that you are not seeing. It is looking at the whole picture of what it means that you have "not" been seeing. Yes there is a clash with them, not just for you but for anyone like you.

Bullies can pick their victims the same way. They often pick the quiet sensitive ones. And these quiet "sensitives" don't understand why. Often an abusive parent that can also be Narcisistic will pick on the weakest child as their victim. They can pick the one that expresses the weakest part of themselves. Which is usually the fear of "feeling empathy". After all, it takes a lot of courage to "feel". They don't want to "feel" like that.