I often think I don't fit in, I am one of two males that post there regularly(that I know of, apologies to any I slighted) but it has been a great source of comfort to me and worth it to me to feel like a bull in a china shop. But it is a micrcosm of real life. I have never felt that I fit in, anywhere. Please post, and I think you will find some support. I'm naturally shy and quiet, but I have my moments.