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Old Feb 01, 2013, 08:55 PM
murray murray is offline
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My T is almost always late...very late lol. So I sit in the waiting room until the previous client leaves. Then he will sometimes peek out of the door and tell me to come in, most often though he will just call out to me to come on in. I walk in and sit down while he is doing any number of things- getting a snack, leaving to go to the bathroom, writing notes.... I sit awkwardly until he is ready and then he looks at me (I assume because I am certainly not looking in his direction). He usually starts off with something related to what I have emailed him throughout the week and we just end up going from there.

The end of session seems to fall naturally. He usually finds some way to lighten the mood before we end so I am fairly safe to leave. The end time for session is very unpredictable as we often go over and my sessions last between 50-75 minutes or so. For the longest time he would ask me what I was taking from this session as we were wrapping up. It would be torture for me as it felt like a test and I was terrified that I would not have the correct answer and my mind would go completely blank. Thankfully he has stopped doing that with me. Every once in a blue moon he will try asking that question and seems surprised somehow when he still gets the same deer-in-the-headlights look from me...think he figures after all this time I have relaxed or something...silly T LOL