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Originally Posted by Starry_Night
My therapist will push to do what she believes is right even if sometimes i dont agree with her (or one of the inside kids) and that is just fine wth us. She mit be trying to work thru something in a certain way, she is the one who is an expert in trauma therapy and DID therapy, not us. We trust that she knows what shes doing. There is however a tone of voice we use when absolutely no means no, and she respects that and will stop but she is welcome to push and push us if she wants to. Its part of our therapy.
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That is an interesting thought that your system is ok with your t sometimes pushing. The pushing is new to me and I don't know how I would have reacted if my t went ahead and did something even though I was saying no. There are some of us who trust her and want to tell her things but some of us are still keeping a watchful eye. I will keep an open mind but I will need to have this conversation with my t. I believe she is wanting to help but maybe part of the healing is getting there myself.