i do feel like that sometimes, but i feel like if i let go and end it then it was my fault we didnt work out because i gave up. i also feel like its a habit for him as well. i dont confront him because i was snooping on his computer which im not 'allowed' to do behind his back (which makes sense because i wouldnt like that either). i feel like i snoop and dont say anything just so when i ask him specific questions and he lies, at least i still know the truth and see how often it happens. he lies about little things so i feel like breaking up over a small issue wouldnt be worth it. ive confronted him so many times and nothing ever changes. he says he lies about these small things because i cant handle the truth and just overreact. (even though he agrees its not right to lie just because the other might get upset). i just feel trapped inside my own head and feel like i have no one to talk to/relate to which is why i signed up here. i try to pick and choose my battles and i found an excuse to go on his computer today and 'accidently' view something i wanted to ask him about. i did it in a way he wouldnt feel like i was snooping or attacking him in anyway so i got a good answer out of it.it eased my mind a bit..even though i know it is just one battle won out of a war. thank you for all the response