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Old Feb 02, 2013, 12:24 AM
Claritytoo Claritytoo is offline
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Originally Posted by Starry_Night View Post
If my t didnt push hard we would never make as much progress as we have. And she can push very very hard. To the point of us yellling at her to stop it, and she will not-- and we have told her that it is ok for her to do that. We need her to do that. W havehad our biggest brealthroughs when she has pushed us through these hardest most painful moments in therapy. T can push hard and she will get right in our face and say "i will NOT stop". That is totally okay with us, as hard as it is. Thats what shes there for.
Just reading that triggered my anger. I could never be in therapy and have my therapist do something I didn't want. I would get very angry very fast and have to leave or explode. I still feel very vulnerable in therapy. I am not used to telling my personal stuff. It has taken me a long time to be able to go into session and talk. And right now there is a lot going on inside. I don't think it would be something I would handle well.