((blondie))

I was once with a pathological liar. *Joe was really bad! Huge, horrible lies that I would have to be an idiot to believe. Yet, Joe made up these grandiose lies continuously. After (maybe??) 6 months, I couldn't take it anymore and finally broke up with him.

That really was one of the best decisions that I ever made in my youth! For some reason, Joe just couldn't handle being seen as an "average" guy. He sure as heck wasn't going to change for me. Joe had been this way for many years. Just being with me wasn't going to turn him around & I certainly could NOT trust or believe anything that he said to me. Being with Joe was absolutely pointless. Even when I was with him I recognized that staying with Joe was wrong. I finally made myself break up with him and stick to it, despite his begging to come back and insisting that he loved me.

It's time to say goodbye to your boyfriend imo, blondie. It doesn't sound as though your bf is as dramatic as Joe was, no. But it really does sound like the same pattern, bringing up the same feelings that I had, within you.