I have some daddy-daughter fantasies that I wonder about, wonder what they mean about my past relationship with my father. The fantasies may actually have nothing to do with my father, because I am not actually imagining him as a partner; rather, it's a "daddy figure" or sometimes someone in authority, or dominant, but not to the level you generally think of when you think of BDSM. But I do wonder from where they come, what they mean, etc. I used to feel upset by them, but some people at this forum helped me feel more comfortable with the fantasies. I still wonder, but feel better than I did.