Hello 2_b_free,

Are men involved in your social life? Do you go to events in town, like county fairs, parades, concerts, parks?? If you do attend these things, do you go alone or with other people? Do you meet a lot of people at work?

I would guess that you're meeting the same type's of men ~ and that it just isn't the right mix for you. I know that it is hard not to take "not the right guy for you" personally. That hurts. Emotionally, if we're interested in someone, they should be interested in us. Of course, it doesn't work that way because we all have intellectual sides as well. How can I help you prevent feeling hurt?

The only way I can think of to help you is to advise you is to step out of your comfort zone just a little bit. Something you're doing just isn't working in finding a romantic partner. Maybe you could try taking a class at a local college, to pick up a new interest and skill. Maybe you'll find a man who is interested in the same type of thing and you can explore things further together. I'd recommend taking that avenue.

Very best wishes to you...