Givingtree,

Thanks for the advice. I think what you said is really good. In my life I guess I just got used to relying on myself to fix everything and it takes to people to make a marriage work. I need to communicate more. My wife says our marriage is like two roommates who sleep in the same bed sometimes. I get caught up in routine and focusing on what tasks I need to get done everyday. I forget to live and enjoy life.