I mentioned on the couch thread that my son was nominated for this court warming thing at his school that is basically just a popularity contest. Two of the boys nominated at my son's school for the court warming thing are from "good" families, and both are in Christian youth groups and really good, clean cut kids. [my son is one of those two ] Neither of them drink at all, they don't smoke, they are in athletics, but neither is a jock, and both do really well academically.

One boy was a foreign exchange student who is staying with a "good" family and is reportedly incredibly nice to everyone, and is very funny.

The fourth boy is from a home that I know is at least somewhat abusive. He drinks and smokes and cheats at school. He is also popular for whatever reason.