No, if you have done your fair share of child rearing, you should not do any more of it. It was just an idea. Let us hope he will not find anyone. I definitely would not want to have a child or even shaare living quarters for a day with him. Let us hope that other women are. Like me. In the meantime, if you can, try to go out with some other men. Maybe it would soothe and distract you, at least for awhile.