I do not know if there is any hope, you are asking the wrong person am afraid. As I said, perhaps its best to have a proper talk with your girl, and see if it can be saved. But I do think you need to respect whatever she says, and if she tells you to move on again, then you'll have to accept it. I know it hurts very much, and I so know the feeling of love & helplessness (and desperate declarations of changing one's self), but sometimes we can not change a persons mind, no matter how much its wanted. I really do think seeing if she will talk things through is the way to go, and at least you can know that you tried, and if its not the answer you want, you can start to move on and heal.

Take good care