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Old Feb 03, 2013, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted by watevs View Post
my decision was based on some childhood memories, and i still believe that the love people are talking about is just made up like fairy tails. what i know is that i find these stuff intimidating. the question is: is it worth it?

Why should you choose? Has either boy pressured you to? Why do you need to be exclusive? Can't you just have a good time with both of them for now? Why get so serious with one boy? Do these guys see other girls? Don't be surprised if they do. I thought dating is when you go out with whomever you want to, whenever you want to? I think in time, after seeing both for a while, you won't have to ask which one you like better.

You also ask is it worth it? I'd have to say YES! YES! YES! Love is an amazing feeling. It is like Riotgrrrl says, "in the beginning you're on cloud 9". I always say it is a "high" like no other (even though the only other high I know is from drinking ). When a boy tells you how much he cares for you, and thinks of you, and wants to be with you, it is a wonderful feeling. It is worth it, even if you're heart gets broken later. That is why the lovelorn seek out love again. Once you have had love, you miss it in your life and want to find it again with someone else. Sometimes the love lasts forever, not the high, just the love. I think that is what many of us are looking for, the kind that lasts forever. That is what the movies and fairy tales, tell us. More often than not, the love does not last. If you have the chance to feel love, even for a little while, I'd say to go for it.