Thanks everyone, I really appreciate the feedback. I am definately going to talk to her doctor about it. I did try to get her to see a therapist once. I had her come with me to mine to see what it was like. Kept it low key, just come and see. Well is laid into me for probably a week after that. Then she suddenly started saying she may be interested in going. When I told her I could get a referral for one for her, she backed off and never mentioned it again. I find I have to treat her with kid gloves. I will try to mention it again keeping in mind she may not see what I'm seeing. (thanks for that pointer).