My ex t, t1 used to get mad at me every session. I thought that therapy involved the therapist getting angry but since seeing another t I realised that it wasn't and T1 had lots of her own issues. She used to give me homework and I would do it but she wouldn't ask me for it next session but one time I didn't do it because she wouldn't ask for it well she did ask and that's when it started. She said I wasn't working hard enough!
She said she didn't work with clients who didn't want to help themselves. I have used and said I had done my homework but she never asked For it, she said this was a lie. And she stopped answering my texts and when I would leave voice mails she would she wouldn't answer. I said to her we are having a communications problem and why didn't you answer my texts she said she didn't have to answer anything. She terminated me after I said therapy wasn't helping me and I feel very suicidal. I left a voicemail saying I couldn't go to our last session because I was so upset and not ready for this , she didn't even bother to reply she was always going on about boundaries it seems like she had more issues than me.

Bluey, I am sorry your T treated you like this but you must remember it is not your job to protect t or walk on eggshells around him. I think he needs to do his own therapy to know how it feels, maybe some anger management