I have never gotten any sense that T has any counter-transference type feelings towards me. He keeps everything very professional. I think the closest I've seen in him is back when I first started seeing him and I had a small melt-down one session because I'd realized I wasn't going to be "fixed" as quick as I wanted and I could see a huge mountain of work in front of me. At that time I had a definite sense he was struggling not to come over and hug me.

But otherwise he's just very blank. We've discussed my attachment to him but never what he feels about me.