In class we are thought to reflect all the time BUT it doesn't happen Irl much, my own t for example never does it but she doesn't do a lot of things she is supposed to. PCM therapy is about so much more than this ! It's about feeling what the client feels not just understanding it! As our teacher t described , if a client was so low and they were drowning in the river the t would have to get into the river and help the client out, feeling the water and struggling against the water but the t has to keep one leg above the water - on the bank so they have the strenght to help the client out without drowning.