My symptoms are different than yours (I am a middle aged woman with bipolar/PTSD) but I have used both Prozac and Remeron. The Prozac did not help my depression ten years ago when I took it. The Remeron though helps me to sleep. I have had insomnia for a long time and take other meds to help me sleep also.

I hope you find what works best for you. It has taken me several years of trying different meds to find my 'cocktail' but I have been mostly stable since 2007.