My T was honest about having a crush on me when I asked her. She already knew about mine. We haven't really talked about it in transference terms, but I do feel comfortable talking about what effects that might have on my therapy. We just keep the lines of communication open and honestly address whatever comes up. My feelings about it have been a really helpful source of information about myself. In order for my therapy to function, I have to regularly address sexual feelings which I have a pattern of avoiding.