I think you are realizing good therapy stuff there bear! Yes, we can't make others jump ahead to where WE are on the path...but yes, we can educate and encourage them to work at becoming better.
It's when our happiness is contingent upon their success that we suffer.
Knowing where I stop and you begin is important for any relationship. Perhaps those who abuse never learned any boundaries?
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