Phew ! The man has SERIOUS problems ! Sounds like a lucky escape to me. Dressing as a women is one thing but the rest is abnormal, disrespectful and quite gross, to be blunt
The problems are his, and no reflection on you or your lady bits. I'm sure both are just fine. Try not to question your beauty or worth. In time you may even laugh, sad as that sounds, and pity him. The memories will fade and it will be a period of your life that was a nightmare. Feel proud you walked away, imagine if you'd stayed. You'd listen more and more to his crass comments (ridiculously unfounded, and blatant ignorant comments) your self esteem would be eroded by this sick man. Who knows where it would have ended ? As his humiliation and unreasonable behaviour spiralled.
He needs help, and at best a blow up doll he can abuse and demoralise.
What a lucky escape you made. Thank God you're out of there. Good move !