S4 - thanks for the tips, I think I knew that stuff, but its good to be reminded. Feelings talk is very hard for me, even with those people I'm closest with. But I'm glad everyone agrees I need to talk to him, I just wasn't sure if I should maybe just let the whole relationship, romantic and friendship and all, just die and leave it at that. Also I know some people who regularly leave the bar without a word to anyone and don't see anything wrong with that, so I was wondering if there's a possibility he has no idea he did anything wrong.