if she's like me, she can smell "controlling" a mile away..........work on yourself and quit trying to control her.

take Rhapsody's advice also.......

i sense a very unhappy young man here. does it upset you horribly if things around you aren't just as you want them?

we all star in our own movie...BUT we don't get to direct, produce and edit anyone else's (unless our name is perhaps Reiner, Howard, Scorcese, etc........)