i chose option 4, i've learned that with my particular condition that if you function "normally" then you don't need to tell anyone anything ever. If i were getting married i wouldn't even tell my wife to be(definitely wouldn't tell a girlfriend or a potential hookup) and i'd lie about why i'm taking my meds(i'd say its for anxiety or something,,im on risperdal btw). And if someone were to say that so and so said that i'm mentally ill i'd brush it off and say its heresay or just a rumor .