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Feb 04, 2013, 09:09 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: Johnson City, Texas
Posts: 255
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Originally Posted by l6886l
In my research, I have discovered that I am codependent and married to a narcissist. It all makes so much sense now. I only wish I had realized this LONG ago so I could have done something to fix ME sooner.
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I didn't realize my ex was NPD until after 17 years of marriage and our divorce. Just like you said.....It all makes so much sense now. You're lucky there was only affair!!
I too am co-dependant (I've know that forever) but I thought it was only on his drinking. I wish I could give you some good advice.....but I didn't realize anything until it was over, and he had me feeling lower than a flea!! He destroyed my confidence (not that I had that much), ability to think for myself, many many many friendships and much more.
I am glad it's over!! I will never regret because of my incredible daughter. I know I am a stronger and better person now.
I will be glad to chat if you need to.
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Have a nice day!
Lisa
Please do not forget, my comments are not based on any education or training. Everything I say is ONLY MY OPINON
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