I don't know what to say about this except that I agree with you. My T has boundaries, but I do know her basic information: married, number of kids, ages of kids, years married, where from, schools attended, church attends, etc. I don't know anything big or personal except when she has done some more disclosure on a couple of occasions when she thought it was therapeutic (I can think of two times where she stated that she had been through a similar circumstance, etc...minimal disclosure though). Even with this information, for a while it bothered me that I didn't know more details. So, your T would annoy me too with that! I mean, I think that complete Blank Slate T's have to know that they too would be irritated to talk to someone so deeply and know nothing about it. It sounds like she has some super good and interesting responses to your statements and inquiries though...sounds like an interesting T!