Purple, I thought of you tonight. I filled my measuring cup with water and popped it in the microwave to make tea. With in those 5 mins I washed half a sink full of dishes,wiped down all my counters and got out all the stuff I needed to bake some brownies, and went to the bathroom. In only 5 mins I got a lot done, I was surprised, very much so. Why not try a 5 minute run and see what you can get done. Anyone can do anything for 5 minutes.
Your son may have texted you about stuff he left , but he did text. He is your son, he wants to spread his wings a bit. Its the normal process, He will flutter back into your life.
Hang in there hun