Thanks for all the support guys!
and the friends on FB are my siblings, cousins and nieces, all posting about that fab time they are having with him... I haven't taken legal action, just outed him to all and sundry, except my mom bcoz she's been through enough AND because she will pretend it never happened (she did that to my sister)

No punching him is not an option he has obtained muscles nearly half the width of my torso, but I would set him alight given half a chance Just to make him dance...

So yes I could delete the lot from my FB but that would be way more troublesome when we get into them attacking me for 'why' and I get defensive and retalliate in a really ugly manner and it will just drag on and on and then they will involve my mom and she will become upset and I live with her and so forth and so forth...

Best to just leave the lot to their rotting and pray the good Lord has an escape plan for me and Jordan where I can truely CHOOSE who I see AND when!