I agree with the previous poster. In fact, I don't think you're ready for a relationship at all. I think you're on the rebound from breaking up with your ex, and you shouldn't have gotten involved with your current bf.

You need to take a break from any/all relationships, and just chill for awhile. Go out with your girlfriends, and stay away from relationships and getting too involved. Wait until you're completely over your ex. There was a reason you and your ex broke up, so I wouldn't think it would be good to get back with him either.

Best of luck, and take care. God bless. Hugs, Lee