Ladyzero, I understand you love your bf and want to be with him but your depression is holding you back at the moment. A good bf would be patient and help you through this difficult time. It looks as though your bf is only caring about himself and putting his needs way above yours.

Your health is the most important thing in this. It looks as though he is saying "give me sex or I'll leave". That is not a healthy relationship and I know this is difficult to hear, but you don't need someone like that. You can get through this pain, and you don't need him adding to it with demands that you don't feel comfortable meeting at this time. You need to concentrate on feeling/getting better. If he's not willing to help with that, then it may be time to separate.

I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, and I wish I could have worded it better. Sorry.