"Thought" is an exaggeration. I was fantasising aloud that T might have an "exciting" marital status. And that, in fact, was what she wanted me to do. That's why she didn't tell me the plain truth up front.

So we had a bit of fun, but I really don't see it as a good use of my time and money when I had plenty of existential angst to work on.

PS:

When I found out she was married, I fantasised that her husband was a South African mining engineer, but it turns out he's just a high school teacher. Therapists are boring people.