People here at Pc understand that you are going through a rough patch right now, so we dont expect you to help others. you main priority in life is to heal yourself, and if PC is helping then id advise for you to stick at it. we honestly dont mind that you dont help others, there are many here that are in your situation. and its completely fine. i understand what you are going through and i understand that you cant help others, you have to feel good in yourself to be able to do that.

you need to do what is best in the long run for yourself, and if you truly believe leaving PC would be it, then i am sorry to see you go. i wish you all the best and i really do hope to see you return one day when things are easier.

i wish you werent going, you are a credit to this site, and you will be missed.

if the only thing that is making you want to leave is because you feel you are selfish for not helping, then you cant be more wrong, its not selfish, and at the end of the day, that is why this forum, this community is here, to help those who need help. and then when you are feeling better, that is when you return it if you wanted. you will never be classed as selfish, not in my eyes and not in anyones eyes here. far from it infact.

take care of yourself and i am sorry to say goodbye.

simon