Thanks for all the kind words!

Coming from other types of forums, I can't believe the support system you guys have!

Anyway, I guess the root of the marriage problem is simply that I married and I wasn't "in love." I married because it was the next logical step, didn't want to be alone, and we were good friends.

Now that we have a son, I feel an obligation to work through it with a marriage counselor as much as possible. I'm conflicted though. If I don't fall in love with her, do I decide it's over to search for that feeling? Part of me thinks I need to be in love. The other part thinks as long as it's comfortable, that should be enough.

Thanks for listening!