Sooo I know everybody is probably sick of hearing all my sad stories but I just gotta know your opinion on this.....I snuck into my husbands office and in a big fille drawer there were two pairs of his pants folded and under those I found his "secret" phone filled with porn AND in the history it showed websites like ashlymadison.com ( affair website for married people to go and have descreet affairs which is guaranteed by website) and mobile dating.....is this not Proof of cheating???