i agree nothemama8, ive posted a post to which i have no responses, and it does hurt. i just try not to let it offend me, but that in itself is easier said than done.

i, personally, try to get through every post on this site, and some posts i read i feel i dont need to respond, because what i want to say has already been said, so i feel i would be wasting eevryones time by responding. but i never ignore anyone. i have no grudges here and i like to think its the same with everyone. that would be a naive thing to think im sure but thats what i think.

your input to PC is remarkable, and i gain alot of knowledge by reading your posts, so i hope you continue it.

it is hard when you feel invisible to people here, i did go through that stage, but i hit a point when i thought "why bother, i have people here that will always reply who i know i can trust". in my eyes, every reply to a post of mine is valued, i never expect many replies, so each one is important to me. do you see what i mean by this. i hope so, its hard to explain.

well i hope you feel better soon and i hope you realise that you are very respected and valued here, by me for one.

simon