i know what you mean, i try my hardest to help others and sometimes, when situations such as this come up i wonder if it is me that has said something wrong to upset someone. i never intend on it, so all i can do is apologise if i have. but instances like this make me doubt sometimes. but fuzzybear, you have to remember, we try to help others considerately and caringly, so if it upsets someone, its not our fault. its just that some people are triggered by certain things that we maight not be aware of, in which case all we can do is apologise for upsetting them and move on.

hope you see what i mean, im finding it hard to explain myslef today!

take it easy ok fuzzyb, and you know where i am if you need me ok. i know how you are feeling.

simon