Hi "Dream" ~ Dearheart, it sure sounds like the honeymoon is over. It is so common after a few years of marriage for couples to stop talking to one another. And it's so SAD. Why not get into marriage counseling? You REALLY won't regret it. In counseling the therapist tries to help EACH of you with any issues you may have. The therapist doesn't come down hard on one person in particular -- each person is treated equally. But if one person is being an absolute JERK, yes, the therapist WILL point that out. LOL But in your case it just sounds like you two need to learn how to communicate and be open and honest with each other. There's almost an "art" to that. And the therapist can show you how. There's also a way to fight FAIR too. So see if your husband is williing to go to therapy. I'll bet he will. He sounds like he's pretty reasonable from what you say. Give it a try. You'll be glad you did.

I wish you the very best. Keep us posted ok? God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee