I'm back now. I usually only get on in the mornings so i haven't been able to respond to any of the posts since yesterday.

I should give a breakdown of the method I developed. It takes ABSOLUTELY NO special training at all. It is based on natural instinct and human psychology. I designed it for the ladies on this sight, and I'm sad that people are tearing it down. So here is why I believe in it so much.

It plays on the natural fear response of the female and the psych of the attacker.

this scenario is for an immenant attack. he is there and she knows it is coming. this could be boyfriend, stranger, whatever. but it is for the time that it is imminent and he is right there and she is searching for anything to get herself out of the situation safe.

I only ask two things in my method. There are a lot of controlling results of these two things, but the female using them does not have to even be aware of them to do it.

first - pull in your arms close to your body. turn sideways to the attacker. It doesnt' matter if she cowers down, gets up against a wall, or anything. as long as she looks scared as hell and her arms are close to her body it is fine. Even if she does not turn sideways... it is fine. GET THOSE ARMS CLOSE TO YOUR BODY. period.

Benifits on her part - it is a normal fear response. it shows her as weak. helpless. NOT SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO FIGHT BACK! that is the most important part of it. the attack is imminent! this may save her from being punched, as a form of being subdued. this may save her from being thrown across the room. at this point for the attacker, there is no reason to knock her into place. she is already there.

Benifits on his part - If it is someone that she already knows, a domestic violence situation, it will slow him down and put his defenses at ease. He will feel that he has already won and he should approach more slowly. He will be taking it all in, for that is the reason he is beating up his girlfriend or wife. CONTROL. DOMINANCE. CONTROL. The only thing that matters here is that he views her as helpless and puts his defenses down. thinking that he ALREADY HAS HER WHERE HE WANTS HER. That is what matters.
If it's someone that they don't know, he will be on a mission to get it done quickly, whatever it is they plan to do. probably rape. once he feels she is where he wants her, his brain will naturally move on to the next step.

THE IMPORTANT THING, IF ANYTHING HERE, IS THAT HE FEELS SHE IS WHERE HE WANTS HER!!!! this can save a woman from being thrown and punched to subdue them! It puts the attackers defenses at ease!!

This also forces him to come close and take the next step, to make the next move. He can't grab her arms to pull her in! he has nothing to grab onto and he has no move to counter on her part. it brings him in!!! Now he could punch her. I know that. But if he does and she falls, then he will probably get on top of her. this technique works lying down too!!

he will come in close, and he will want to turn her to face him. he can grab hair, head, shoulders or even carelessly grab for the torso. whatever, it doesn't matter. step two is to hit the bastard in the throat with whatever part of the body you can. Try for the elbows, but it can be fist, forearm, whatever. THIS DOES NOT TAKE SPECIAL TRAINING OR EVEN PRACTICE!

If she misses, he will view it as struggling, not going for the throat! he will do the natural thing of grabbing for the arms to subdue her. KEEP STRUGGLING and try again. it's a natural response to struggle, and I am giving the lady ONE THING and one thing only to focus on.

I made this technique because I really care about the lady's on this site. Not because I want to show off or any of that crap. So... instead of telling them they don't have much of a chance... lets give them a fighting chance! My advice is solid. In works on so many levels and it's so easy to do. Pull your arms in, when he comes close punch the bastard in the throat. nothing special there. but it just might save a life one day.