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Originally Posted by Big Mama
Would she be open to discussing this and doing something, an agreement of some sort, or would that just put the ball in motion for her to know that you are thinking about that and she would want to get in the way of what is best for the kids ASAP.
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She knows my intentions. She knows that I take good care of the kids too. I'm not even sure she's gonna want all that much time with them anyway. I'm sure she wouldn't say no but she's also probably not going to push it either.
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The only thing that concerns me is living in a hotel. That doesn't sound like the best option for kids. A house or appartment. But is is better then living from home to home w/ mom and a strange man.
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Exactly. I'm not real worried about the hotel thing. Many people do this in a transitional period like this. I don't even know if it will come up.
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That is my only concern for how a jucge might see things.
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I dont' even know that a judge takes all that much time looking at things where things are agreed upon. I believe in a DIY divorce situation, you can take the stuff to the court, and he looks them over and probably will confirm we both agree and then sign off.
I think it will work out fine.